kinky disability: emotional instability, sub space and sub drop

note: i won’t be talking about dom space/drop, largely because i can’t remember how it feels or how it affected me, as it was a long time ago. my experiences with sub space are much more recent. i don’t typically talk about my emotional instability. partially because it’s not typically present and thus doesn’t affect [...]

Kinky Disability: Finding My Limits

I haven’t written for this series in a while. Things have been…. I’m not sure what the word for it would be. Progressing, as I move forward with proper treatment for my disabilities and yet in a sense, disheartening as I learn throughout the days that the things I greatly enjoy may not be things [...]

Everyone Is Welcome, Unless You’re That Uppity Mentally Ill Person

Note: This post talks extensively about the history of slurs and stereotypes regarding mental illness, which may be triggering. It also includes discussion of abuse related to them. Certain things I have elected not to link to, such as the game and article in question. This is done on purpose, to help avoid further triggering [...]

Kinky Disability: It’s Okay To Be Kink

This is something I’ve been meaning to do for a little while now, but haven’t had something to give me enough drive to get me started. As it is National Invisible Illness Awareness Week in the United States, it has given me the drive I need. Kinky Disability is the start of a new series [...]

I Am Not: Dead

Sometimes ableism, classism, racism, sexism, transphobia, homophobia or any other -ism or -phobia isn’t about what you do. Sometimes it’s about what you don’t do. When I was at work today, I had a medical emergency. Despite having eaten just minutes before leaving home, I had a blood sugar crash. While I’m not diabetic, these [...]