I am a rape survivor. I am the audience to your coldness, your assaults on our bodies, minds and hearts. I am an abuse survivor. I am the audience to your treachery, your invasions of our safe spaces, our wellbeing and homes. I am ‘female’, The target behind your snipes and your condemnation, the hearts [...]
i’m sorry for getting this out so late, but my family and i want to send out thank yous for everyone that has supported our efforts to preserve dryads rest and my aunts housing. with the noise we generated, word got around to the family of a LARPer that has commissioned her, and one of [...]
i hung out with a friend today. i don’t really consider myself to have many friends. maybe that’s because the words mean different things to me. i only have maybe two or three, all of which i rarely see. i keep people at arm’s length, trying not to let them get too close to me. [...]
this is not something that i typically do. but we are in desperate need of your help. my aunt, widowed and living in extreme poverty, has been served an eviction notice from her mortgage lender. this lender, being a part of a nation-wide classist housing scheme and financial crisis from the illegal inflation of false [...]
so since i’ve been in an oddly timed relapse i haven’t had much energy to write anything expansive. but! i have taken up a few responsibilities that mean quite a bit to me, for several reasons. i hope they will be of help to others as much as they have been for me. if either [...]
thanks y’all for your responses to my last entry. i did manage to find something that i’m going to try, when i went looking for indian soap nuts locally i found a small package of laundry powder that doesn’t have fragrances, dyes or unnatural chemicals that i got for $3.50. an ok price for a [...]
dear customers, coworkers and other such individuals who douse themselves in fragrances and then proceed to invade and poison my workplace: you reek. no, seriously. i know i’m supposed to be providing superior customer service, but once you step anywhere near my workplace, even if only in passing, i cannot think once the air is [...]
my heavily threaded guilt complex developed over oh so many years has been getting to me. telling me that i should feel bad for not posting as frequently as i have, as i should, about subjects that i know i should be talking about but just haven’t had the energy for it. but see, the [...]
this is a guest post for Kinky Disability written by my Dom and fiancé. He is very new to kink and power exchange, esp when learning about and dealing with disabilities, and i wanted to include that in this series bc of the unique position and perspectives that such a path brings. bc while self-care [...]
trigger warning for description of compulsive actions (hell, i know it’s happened to me) and a long rant about society’s sexist body shaming [image is a zoomed in snapshot of someone’s lower face. showing just the lips, cheeks and chin below the nose, the contrast between their incredibly pale skin and several open red sores [...]
